Marriage: A decision to be made by Parents or by Children themselves

Today the world is changing at a very fast pace due to globalization. The thoughts of people are also changing with it as well. The world seems to become a one world with the passing time which was divided into many worlds up-to the middle of 20th century due to the lack of communication. As the effect of powerful over the weak is always there so the concept of free society with less restrictions is also nourishing these days in all the countries of the world. Marriage system is also effected due to it.

Now marriage is considered to be very sacred by people whereas other consider it be an important part to grow and act as real human being.If we look into the dictionary the definition of marriage is somewhat like this "Marriage is a legally accepted relationship between a man and a woman in which they live as husband and wife, or the official ceremony which results in this." The definition of marriage in dictionary may not be very pleasing to people who consider it very sacred. For them Marriage is the unification of two souls which are together in this life and will remain together even in afterlife. People around the world have different opinion about marriage. Although this is sure that marriage results in the relationship between a man and a woman(heterosexual marriage only) and it is astonishing that it was there from pre-medieval times and it was present in everysociety of the world.

When marriage is going to happen, the partner can be chosen by the parents(called arranged marriage) or the person can himself/herself can choose the partner(called love marriage). To get married with the help marriage bureaus or matrimonal sites can also be classified under arrange marriage. Lets understand the concept of arrange marriage and love marriage one by one:

Arranged marriage:

Its actually an agreement between a man and woman to live together as husband and wife, and there can be one or numerous causes behind it. In arranged marriage the person, one's guardian or one's fellow members seek a partner for him/her. in arranged marriages both the partners may or may not be knowing each other. The basic reason forarranged marriage which actually give the name arrange to it is that the partners are joining together due to some reason but there is no love in between them. Love may happen between them after marriage but during marriage they have no love affair in between them.

The advantages of arranged marriages are many but the most probable cause of arrange marriage is the need of an offspring(nautre's law to reproduce). Marriage of convenience is a marriage in which a marriage is made in order to achieve some financial or political purpose. Now marriages like this benefits a lot but the there is no gain in the love life of a person. Lets see its advantages:

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